For my Wife!

When people ask me about my wife or they my ask, "Whats the greatest thing about your wife?" or "What is the one thing you love most about your wife?" Honestly I do have a hard time thinking of something. No, not because I'm heartless or there is honestly nothing I can think of. Have people ever thought there might just be to many great things to name one?

First off marriage.... A friend of mine and I have a saying that Marriage is a blessing and a curse in one. But before you start thinking that I have a sour look on marriage I don't. The blessings overwhelm the Curses! You will have your good times and of course the hard times. No one ever has the "perfect" marriage. Everyone will disagree in times and possibly even become angry at times. But I believe that is what makes a "perfect" marriage.

Jackie and I do fight sometimes and we do disagree on things. But no matter what we fight about or what we disagree on I still love her! I think that is one of the keys to a great marriage. You need to expect that everything is not going to be peachy all the time and you WILL have hard times. And it will take both of you to overcome those hard times and in the end it will make you stronger. You need to be willing to let by gones be by gones and to forgive and forget. If you can't do those things....well you better start!

Jackie and I met in Jr. High and when I first saw her I knew I was going to have a future with her. People say we married to young. Jackie needs to experience life first and single life. I need to party or whatever. To those people I feel sorry for them. They haven't experienced what we have obviously experienced. Why hold off on something or put something aside for chance when you KNOW you don't want anybody else. Yes I do agree people get married to young sometimes and it doesn't work out. But they married for the wrong reasons! They may think they married for Love, and Compassion but they didn't.

Jackie and I married for the right reasons. We truly loved each other and we truly wanted to be together. Not just for the romance, and the excitement but for life and after. I have no regrets for getting married at the age of 21 and I can speak for her as well. She is the perfect girl for me. She is beautiful, smart, loving, fun, sexy, and caring. I love her with all my heart and I always will. She is my best friend, my love, and sometimes my annoying other half.... But no matter what happens I will love her forever and Always!